As Thanksgiving approaches, I find myself reflecting on the many ways this holiday brings our family together. As a mom of three teenagers and a grandma to our beloved mini goldendoodle, I’ve learned a few tricks over the years to make this special day both memorable and manageable. Here are some best practices that have worked wonders for us and might be helpful for other moms out there.
1. Plan Ahead
Thanksgiving can be overwhelming without a plan. Our family starts by creating a menu and shopping list at least two weeks in advance. This helps avoid last-minute trips to the store and ensures we have everything we need. Since we almost always have Thanksgiving with my parents, I coordinate dishes with my mom and sisters. This way, everyone knows what they’re bringing, and we avoid duplicating dishes. Involve your teenagers in the planning process—they can help with shopping and prepping, making it a family affair. Plus, it’s a great way to sneak in some quality time amidst the hustle and bustle.
2. Delegate Tasks
Don’t be afraid to delegate! Assign specific tasks to each family member. My teenagers are great at setting the table, decorating, and even helping with some cooking. Delegating tasks not only eases your workload but also makes everyone feel like a vital part of the celebration. It can even become a game to see who completes their task the best.
3. Prep in Advance
Prepare as much as you can the day before. I usually make the pies, chop vegetables, and I know my mom marinates the turkey ahead of time. This reduces stress on the actual day and allows more time to enjoy with family. Advanced preparation can also involve setting up the dining area and arranging any decorations. By spreading out the workload, you make the day itself more relaxed and enjoyable for everyone. Plus, it leaves more time for those spontaneous kitchen dance parties!
4. Create New Traditions
Thanksgiving is the perfect time to start new traditions. We have a tradition of going around the table and sharing what we’re thankful for. It’s a simple yet meaningful way to connect and reflect on our blessings. You can also consider adding new activities like a family walk, a game night, or a collective cooking session. These traditions become the highlights of the day and give everyone something to look forward to each year. Maybe you could even start a friendly family competition, like a pie-baking contest or a turkey trot!
5. Embrace Imperfection
Not everything will go perfectly, and that’s okay. The turkey might be a little dry, or the pie might not look picture-perfect, but what matters most is the time spent together. Embrace the imperfections and focus on the joy of being with loved ones. The holidays are about connection and gratitude, not flawless execution. Laugh off any mishaps and enjoy the quirky moments—they often turn into the best memories. After all, it’s the laughter and love that fills the room, not the perfection of the meal.
6. Make Time for Yourself
Amidst the hustle and bustle, don’t forget to take a moment for yourself. Whether it’s a quiet cup of coffee in the morning or a short walk with the dog, these moments of peace can help you stay grounded and enjoy the day more fully. It’s important to recharge so you can be present and engaged with your family. Self-care is not indulgent; it’s a necessary part of making the holiday enjoyable for everyone. Sneak away for a few minutes to breathe, relax, and soak in the holiday spirit.
7. Cherish the Moments
Finally, remember to cherish the moments. Our kids grow up so fast, and these family gatherings are precious. Take lots of photos, laugh together, and make memories that will last a lifetime. Focus on the joy and togetherness, and savor each interaction. These moments are fleeting, but their impact can last a lifetime. Treasure the laughter, the stories, and the simple act of being together. Capture those candid shots and silly selfies, and let the memories warm your heart long after the holiday season has passed.
Thanksgiving is a time to celebrate family, gratitude, and togetherness. By planning ahead, delegating tasks, and embracing new traditions, we can create a holiday that’s both enjoyable and meaningful.
From my family to yours, have a Happy Thanksgiving!
What are some of your favorite Thanksgiving traditions, tips, or lifesavers? Share your stories and insights in the comments below! I’d love to hear from you.